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Throughout history, humans have discovered, invented, and harnessed countless resources and applied them to the improvement and extension of human lives.
Yet, for modern people, it’s difficult to feel thankful for these things, since most of us don’t know, or simply don’t remember, what life was like without them.
But it goes deeper than that: for all the ways in which we’ve tamed the natural world, we seem to have lost control of our inner worlds.
In a world that’s safer, cleaner, and more connected than at any point in recorded history, why the fuck are people getting more miserable?
Of course, part of the recent decline in human joy has to do with some recent social backsliding: a pandem!c, a major armed conflict, and record inflation are certainly difficult to categorize as “blessings of modernity”.
But I think it’s more than that. I think that humans simply aren’t meant for This Shit™.
What is This Shit™?
Sure, there are more people, and our lives are longer and easier — but are our lives really that much better?
One of the first things I learned in school was that I should be grateful for science because, before the innovations of modern technology, my ancestors lived short, miserable lives.
Turns out, that’s not quite true. Our ancestors lived longer than we tend to give them credit for — however, most of them died as children. That means that anyone who made it past the age of 15 had a decent chance of living to 60 or 70.
That’s a bit of a different picture than a world full of sickly people who died in their 30s.
So, how would our distant hunter-gatherer ancestors have spent their time?
Well, in a world where only a fraction of the population lives into adulthood and there are few, if any, governments, people pretty much did whatever the fuck they wanted.
In this world, a human would likely encounter, at a maximum, only a few hundred other humans within their lifetime, and most of them would be sick children. There would be an abundance of edible plant and animal life, fewer annual contagious diseases, and zero mass shootings and bombings perpetrated by lone psychopaths.
Our ancestors had more leisure time, better diets, and less arthritis than we do. They were also stronger and had larger brains.
I won’t pretend the past was paradise, though. A large percentage of ancient human remains bear the marks of violence at the hands of other humans. Also, as I said before, most children died of illness or exposure before they ever got the chance to fight off an angry adult.
Let’s compare that to what we know about the average life of a member of the working class:
On top of that, consider how much time we spend on hold with customer service, shopping for groceries, renewing our Driver’s License and vehicle registration, reading up on political news and casting votes, washing our bodies and clothes, maintaining and repairing our homes, paying our bills, entering passwords, and creating accounts for software.
Then, on top of that consider how much time we spend briefly “killing time” between commitments by scrolling on social media, watching videos, playing games, or sitting at the bar wondering if our date is going to show up.
Sure, our lives are longer. But how much are we actually living?
To me, this is the Price Of Progress: we exchange the quality of our days for a higher quantity of days.
And what’s the result?
We’re fucking miserable. But at least we get to be miserable for several decades, right?
If you’re anything like me, I know what you’re thinking: “Fuck This Shit™.”
Time is weird. It seems to expand and contract according to how much you focus on it. It grinds relentlessly away at life, and yet, some animals are immortal, and others can extend their stay on this material plane by hibernating through the toughest seasons.
Even stranger, your thoughts are almost completely unbound from time. You can think about time in a similar way to how you can think about space by casting your “mind’s eye” forward and backward across four dimensions of experience.
So, why does all this matter? Because the time you spend living is only as rich and full of joy as you want it to be.
You can choose to make the most of the time you have, or you can “check out” from your life, sleeping, shitting, and working your hours away, and filling the moments in between with as many distractions as you can pay for with your income.
You can choose to spend your days doing things you love and honing yourself into the best version of “you,” or you can chase escapism.
Here’s the thing: I don’t know what’s right. I can’t teach you how to live appropriately. I can’t even tell you what it means to live appropriately.
However, I can tell you one thing which might help you: life will slip away from you if you let it. It will pass you by until eventually you look back and wonder, “What did I do with my time? Was it really worth it?”
If you’re worried about what your answer will be when you finally ask yourself this question, then there is only one thing to do. Live immediately.
Do what you would do if you were who you want to be. You do not need permission from anyone to love yourself.
If you’re concerned about the value or morality of the life you’re currently living, then examine yourself now, while you can. Use philosophy as a tool to examine yourself from multiple perspectives. Test your perceptions against logic. Plunge the depths of your feelings.
Life only gets shorter each day. Don’t waste it.
Memento Mori.
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